Another one bites the Dust

here by Amy Johnson
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click As I began to write this piece, the internet was blowing up with the latest sexual harassment scandal: Morgan Freeman.

overnight canadian viagra Sigh. Another one bites the dust. Will there be justice? And what, exactly, does justice look like here? Freeman not getting any more multi-million-dollar movie contracts or endorsements? Not getting to play God anymore—literally and figuratively?

cheap viagra on internet Meanwhile, the survivors of Freeman’s (Spacey’s/Moore’s/Sheen’s/Hoffman’s/Weinstein’s/Cosby’s and countless others’) behavior continue to live in a culture where female people are routinely and systematically treated like objects who are fair game for sexual use by others—without their consent. These messages are communicated to us all early in life. They start with language like “He’s so strong!” for male babies and “She’s so cute!” for female babies.

go to site Children in elementary school easily articulate how the messages in our society around power, behavior, and sexuality are different for male people and female people. Those “He’s a stud; she’s a whore” memes? They are alive and oh, so well. Just a few days ago, they were spoken out loud by peers in a room full of eight-graders during a presentation I was giving. When these messages flourish, we all lose.

go here We lose when female people are blamed for what they wear and how they behave.

anti-estrogen drug side-effects of viagra We lose when male people are steeped in toxic messages about what it means to be a man in our society.

source We lose when those whose genders are less binary are marginalized because they don’t fit neatly into one of two very contaminated boxes.

new fertility drug like clomid dosage We lose when people with power use their privilege to speak to and touch whoever and however they want because they can—and because our society has said, “Go ahead. It’s what’s expected of you.”

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It looks like truth-telling.

Truth-telling by survivors who refuse to let someone else’s power and reputation dictate their reality and their demand for humane treatment.

Truth-telling by those in power (I’m talking to you, Congress) having the courage to hold even those in the highest offices of our country accountable for harassment, assault, and more.

Truth-telling by faith communities who say, “What opportunities and responsibilities do we as a faith community have to impact the sexual health of our youth? What is available to us to do this in a faithful way?”

Truth-telling by parents who decide to deal with their own discomfort and discuss bodies, power, respect, and the mosaic that is our sexuality with their children throughout their entire lives.

Let us not grow weary in doing what is right, for we will reap at harvest time, if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9 (NRSV)

In this garden of secrets and tolerance for harassment that we have inherited and sustained with our complicity, let us celebrate the groundswell of weed-pulling that has begun. Let us not grow weary, but continue to plant the seeds of respect, of equity, of unity. Let us water them with love and persistence, so that the sunlight of our Holy One can help them grow strong, and we can harvest true justice.