I recently attended the powerful Teen Mental Health Conference in Richmond, VA, and I must say, it left a profound impact on me. The level of social, political, holistic healing, and community awareness showcased at the event was nothing short of inspiring. What stood out the most was the unapologetic way Black and Brown voices addressed the root causes of the issues plaguing our communities.
These conversations were not about skimming the surface or offering quick fixes. They delved into the historical and cultural significance of colonialism, the loss of cultural identity, and the ways these forces have left us disconnected as a collective. This type of honesty is rare. As someone who has attended countless meetings in Roanoke and spoken with leaders, pastors, business owners, and politicians, I can confidently say that these root issues are often avoided or ignored.
In Richmond, I witnessed something different conversations that were unapologetically real. For once, the historical context and cultural significance behind our struggles were not only acknowledged but also fully explored. These discussions highlighted why we remain lost as a collective and why, without addressing these roots, the changes we hope to see in our communities will continue to elude us.
I say this with love for my city: Roanoke, it’s time to get with the times. When it comes to having honest conversations about the real issues impacting our community, we are light-years behind. Too often, the focus is on surface-level solutions that avoid the uncomfortable truths necessary for meaningful change.
The contrast between what I experienced in Richmond and what I often see in Roanoke couldn’t be starker. It was a reminder that progress begins with courage the courage to confront uncomfortable truths and to engage in dialogue that digs deep into systemic issues.
What truly touched my soul at the conference was the deep sense of relatability and shared understanding. For once, I didn’t feel isolated in my thoughts. I was surrounded by Black, Brown, and even White allies who were all aligned in transformational dialogue. It was a powerful reminder that I am not alone in my vision or in my frustrations.
I even shed a few tears as I listened to others express sentiments that mirrored my own. At that moment, I felt a profound sense of confirmation that I am on the right path. My message, my work, and my purpose are valid and necessary. It became clear that all I need to do is continue pushing forward educating myself, and surrounding myself with other progressive thinkers who share the same commitment to change.
The conference left me feeling inspired, motivated, and stronger in my resolve. I now see with even greater clarity the issues that must be addressed in our communities and within the systems that disproportionately impact Black and Brown people.
One of the biggest takeaways for me was the importance of staying focused on what truly matters. Feel-good events and activities that serve only to boost egos are distractions from the real work that needs to be done. Change cannot happen if we only skim the surface. We must be willing to confront the uncomfortable, to dig deep into the structural and systemic issues that hold us back as a society.
True change begins from within. It requires self-reflection, commitment, and the willingness to do the hard work necessary for transformation. This applies to all of us, regardless of race, religion, background, or title. It’s a collective responsibility, and it starts with each of us being honest about the challenges we face and the roles we play in perpetuating or dismantling them.
As I move forward, I am more determined than ever to stay on this path. To those who feel the weight of the work ahead, remember:
Together, we can create the change our communities so desperately need. Let’s continue to push forward, unapologetically addressing the root causes of our struggles while working to heal ourselves and those around us.
Give thanks for the clarity, strength, and unity that this journey brings.
